Consulting Is Career Purgatory

You escaped employment, not dependence
You didnât say it loud.
You said it quietly. Over coffee. In the DMs. On a call with an old colleague.
âJust consulting for now.â
And in that one phrase, you told the whole truth.
Not the one about your experience.
Not the one about your network.
Not even the one about your next opportunity.
The real truth:
Youâre not building.
Youâre buffering.
Letâs break this.
âJust consulting for nowâ is the most dangerous sentence in the post-org lexicon.
Because it sounds practical.
Reasonable.
Strategic.
Itâs not.
Itâs drift in disguise.
Itâs a holding pattern.
A stalling loop.
A polite way of saying:
âI donât know what I am without the org chart, so Iâm renting out my identity until I figure it out.â
Hereâs the punch:
Consulting isnât an identity.
Itâs a delay mechanism.
The longer you âjust consult,â the further you drift from the power you left to claim.
Because consulting is reactive by nature.
It responds. It adapts. It pleases.
It keeps you sharp, but keeps you subservient.
Youâre not sovereign. Youâre serviceable.
And every time you close a deal, you tell yourself itâs momentum.
Itâs not.
Itâs another 3-month project that will vanish, with no leverage, no system, and no structure left behind.
Consulting is a symptom. Not a solution.
You escaped employment, but you didnât escape dependence.
You still need the inbound.
Still pitch yourself in other peopleâs frames.
Still defer your direction to client scope.
Still one deal away from drought.
You traded a boss for a booking link.
And now youâre trapped between being too experienced to be junior, and too unstructured to be sovereign.
Thatâs not consulting.
Thatâs career purgatory.
Hereâs what no one says:
Consulting can be architecture, but only if you structure it like an operator.
You must stop renting your expertise, and start productising your thinking.
You must move from reaction to installation.
From proposal to platform.
From âWhat do you need?â to âHereâs what I deploy.â
If you donât make that shift, youâll wake up five years later with a stack of decks and no direction.
âJust consulting for nowâ is not a phase.
Itâs a trap.
And the market will let you stay there.
Busy. Respected. Drifting.
But you didnât come this far to rent out your calendar.
You came to build something that no org chart could ever offer.
Power. Identity. Infrastructure.
Consulting wonât get you there.
You need architecture.
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Youâre not âjust consulting for nowâ. Youâre buffering. You didnât escape the job, you just found a new boss.
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